My Confidence Journey: From "Why Weight?" to Love + Confidence

For years, I carried the weight of self-doubt. "Why weight?" became my silent question— why wait for the perfect life, the perfect body, the perfect moment? This question, born from a lifetime of struggling with my weight and facing the harsh realities of body shaming, held me back, whispering insecurities and preventing me from fully embracing my potential.

It all began 12 years ago during my doctoral studies. My dissertation, entitled "A Weighted Perspective," explored the impact of societal pressures and internalized negativity surrounding weight. It was a deeply personal journey that forced me to confront the pain of childhood bullying, the hurtful jokes, and the constant feeling of not being enough.

But through research, reflection, and a growing sense of self-awareness, I began to understand that true confidence wasn't about a number on a scale. It was about embracing the unique beauty and strength within each of us. It was about recognizing that we have the power to create our own lives, to step into our purpose, and to dance freely, unshackled from self-imposed limitations.

This awakening ignited a fire within me. I began to shed the layers of self-doubt, replacing them with self-love and acceptance. I learned to silence the inner critic and embrace my authentic self, flaws and all. And yes, I even shed 75 pounds along the way—not as a means to an end, but as a testament to the inner transformation I was experiencing.

This journey led me to create "Confidence is Me," a brand dedicated to empowering others to embrace their own confidence. But life, as it often does, took an unexpected turn, leading me to become a caregiver for my mother. This experience, while challenging, deepened my understanding of love, resilience, and the interconnectedness of our human experience.

Now, at 48, I've learned that life is a continuous journey of growth and self-discovery. While caregiving remains a significant part of my life, I've realized the importance of prioritizing my own well-being and pursuing my passions. That's why I'm thrilled to reintroduce my brand as Love + Confidence — a reflection of my evolved perspective and a renewed commitment to empowering others.

Love + Confidence is more than just a brand; it's an invitation to join a community of self-acceptance and empowerment. It's a reminder that confidence breeds beauty, and beauty comes in countless forms. It's about embracing who you are, loving yourself fiercely, and inspiring others to do the same.

This is my story—a story of perseverance, self-discovery, and the unwavering power of love and acceptance. I invite you to share yours. Let's embrace our journeys, celebrate our unique beauty, and empower each other to live authentically and confidently.